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If you tell her she’s just a friend after three months or more of dating, you automatically put her in the “Friends With Benefits” zone, also known as fuck buddy. At this point her feelings for you stop her from walking away because even though she knows that she will never be more than that, she hopes that one day it will all change. But what you fail to tell her is that it will never be more than that, and the only reason that could be is because you’re still stuck on a previous relationship which you are not ready to let go. But you keep her around because you know she loves you, and will do anything for you and you take advantage of that opportunity. But sooner or later, if she still doesn’t know where she stands in your heart she will stop all emotions. Sex will just be sex, she will stop putting her effort into it, she will slowly begin to hate you for leading her on and failing to give her what you promised her in the beginning. She will start being quiet more often because deep down inside she is hurting and tearing apart. She will start doing things on her own because she’s trying to get used to being alone again. She will stop calling, texting you, and her interest in you will start dying. At this point, she has built so much hate for you and stop talking to you for lying to her and stringing her along when you knew you couldn’t love her like she deserves. Sooner or later, the girl that loved you, will be a stranger.
